Does your story of sex and pleasure need a rewrite?

We are sexuality experts and pleasure advocates. We offer group workshops and one-on-one coaching to those who are struggling to feel vibrant and connected to their sensual selves and partners.

Recognizing the challenges of living in this world in this moment, we see the intrinsic value of being able to create space for pleasure, being able to evolve into your most authentic and powerful self and finding joy, release and renewal as we make transitions in our lives. Most of us were handed a script about sex and relationships: what’s ‘normal,’ what’s ‘allowed,’ what’s ‘too much.’ Flip the Script Consulting invites you to toss those lines and improvise something better: your own authentic path to intimacy, fulfillment, and possibility.

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Our Mission & Vision

MISSION: Our mission is simple: pleasure isn’t optional—it’s the headline. We are here to help you make it part of daily life by empowering individuals and couples to rewrite their stories around sex and relationships—flipping the script on silence, shame, and ‘shoulds,’ and creating lives filled with curiosity, joy, and connection.

VISION: We envision a world where pleasure is seen as power, conversations about sex are bold, playful, and transformative, intimacy is built by design, and no one feels trapped in someone else’s script.

Testimonial

RIPEN has made me feel connected to my body in a new and exciting way. It has provided a space for me to explore ideas about my sexuality in a comfortable and supportive environment that I have never voiced before. I’m deeply grateful for how it has allowed me to be more open with my husband and help us rebuild our relationship.  

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Gretel has created a loving, kind and supportive space to talk and learn about our sexual selves in a way that is sometimes even hard to talk about with your girlfriends, let alone your partner! Nothing is off the table, we talk about it all, and I’ve never felt more embraced and seen. Thank you Gretel and all the women at RIPEN for helping me enter a new chapter of knowing myself.

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I’m a woman in my 60’s and rediscovering my sexuality in a way I never had a chance. Gretel made me feel so comfortable that I was able to open up and explore with total fun and trust. It was really important for me to talk one on one with a mature woman who had experience and knowledge and genuinely cared. Because of meeting with Gretel I have found more confidence to continue exploring my sexuality the way I want to and more importantly allow myself more pleasure.

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Gretel Meyer Odell

Founder, Sex Educator

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Gretel is a queer, married, non monogamous Sex Educator and Certified Menopause Coaching Specialist living in Toronto. As a sex and pleasure expert of 50 plus, she has rich perspectives and lived experience as well as training in Somatic Sex Education and Sexological Bodywork. She welcomes those navigating long term relationships, new beginnings, separation/divorce, loss/grief, alternative relationship models, sexual ennui, kink explorations, health challenges, and perimenopause. She prizes the creation of community as a vital framework for support around menopause, pleasure and sexual health and continues to grow a conversation series for women where safe-as-possible spaces are created for open sharing and mutual support around the challenges of life and love. She is a proud mother and a passionate builder/fixer/maker.

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Isaac Meyer odell

Creative Partner, Sex Educator, Photographer

Isaac is a photographer and digital media professional with a longtime passion for providing coaching and leadership in communities. He offers workshops with Gretel on consensual nonmonogamy/open relationships, communication, kink explorations as well as private coaching for men who are seeking an open and experienced guide who can offer perspectives from a male lens.